I talked to W's stepmom last night to let them know what's going on. They have been supportive of me, through the last cycle / affair and through this one. They think she is delusional.
Anyway, her dad is livid about this. He can't believe she couldn't wait till she was divorced before she started 'dating' other men. He knows about the affair 3 years ago and was amazed I took her back after that.
