Yes, you are right. I know I had some walls going into that relationship. A little aprehensive in some things I did.
I am glad you used the word "usually". Most of us here have a spouse (ex) that is with a SO they met while married to us. And most have married them.
I just felt we had the right tools and experience to make a go of it. But we went from talking out everything (past/present) to not being able to talk at all it seemd. All in a matter of 2 weeks.
I hope some day (sooner than later) she will see that I was still open to listening and working through the difficulties all relationships have.
Still hope someone will answer my original questions above.
