Today it was the cell phone and how I F**ked up, when it was the bell guy that didn’t set my account up right, not me..i am just a customer. She hung up the phone on me. The guy didn't transfer over the existing contract , rather started a new one. He assured me it was ok..
She is totally trying to test my temper, i refuse to give in
Everyone with the cell phones. For a minute sawks, I had you confused with Marcum. You know, I think that I've finally learned, but, may not be able to practice that losing my temper is almost always detrimental to my DB efforts.
She is totally trying to test my temper, i refuse to give in
Good for you!
Why is she pissed that you got a new contract? Does she have a phone that got extended or something because of that?
I don't know why she is angry about it , maybe it means it is closer to the end? I fixed the cell phone issue, it is under my name now, and my own plan etc. It does not affect her , but the way the cell people set it up, it would have been her on the hook for 2 more years. it's all good.
Everyone with the cell phones. For a minute sawks, I had you confused with Marcum. You know, I think that I've finally learned, but, may not be able to practice that losing my temper is almost always detrimental to my DB efforts.
So, congratulations on keeping your cool.
Dan
As pissed as she is making me, i am letting it go, letting it go, not saying a peep. She is in for a surprise this weekend, I will ask her to go thru each room and let's being writing down what we want etc, i am sure she doesn't expect that
It does not affect her , but the way the cell people set it up, it would have been her on the hook for 2 more years. it's all good.
It does not affect her cuz she was keeping the phone anyways? Or it doesn't affect her cuz you got it fixed so she's on her old contract?
I agree with others that she is angry/scared/uncertain because of how you are moving away from her. I think she will be surprised when you ask to split things up.
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It does not affect her , but the way the cell people set it up, it would have been her on the hook for 2 more years. it's all good.
It does not affect her cuz she was keeping the phone anyways? Or it doesn't affect her cuz you got it fixed so she's on her old contract?
I agree with others that she is angry/scared/uncertain because of how you are moving away from her. I think she will be surprised when you ask to split things up.
It does not affect her, i now have my own plan, off the family plan. She has her phone on her own plan now. She has her 3 year contract, i am now removed from that plan and have transferred over my plan to my own.. does that make sense? LOL
I think you are right when I ask her to go room by room to write the split of assets up, i think she will be very surprised. I am starting to move a bit faster now towards complete detachment, and i don't think she believes it.
I think what happened is originally they extended her contract as well. Sawks fixed it so it should be OK.
I had the same issue. We just split our cells as well, and I grilled my h to make sure that when he put me on my own plan, he made sure it didn't reset my contract.
I understand her. I'm getting the same way with my h. EVERY LITTLE thing he is doing is making me mad. If he breathes too loud, I'm pissed. He told me last night that he thought I was trying to pick fights. I told him he was just inconsiderate (he erased a phone message before I got it). He said he thinks I'm picking fights because I'm mad at him. He said he understands because he has been mad at me for so long. (I wear this cheesy shirt to bed that says "Pick Flowers, not Fights". He told me to read my shirt.)
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I think what happened is originally they extended her contract as well. Sawks fixed it so it should be OK.
I had the same issue. We just split our cells as well, and I grilled my h to make sure that when he put me on my own plan, he made sure it didn't reset my contract.
I understand her. I'm getting the same way with my h. EVERY LITTLE thing he is doing is making me mad. If he breathes too loud, I'm pissed. He told me last night that he thought I was trying to pick fights. I told him he was just inconsiderate (he erased a phone message before I got it). He said he thinks I'm picking fights because I'm mad at him. He said he understands because he has been mad at me for so long. (I wear this cheesy shirt to bed that says "Pick Flowers, not Fights". He told me to read my shirt.)
Correct, it would have extended her contract.
There is no reason to be pissed at me, i am doing everything the way she always asked me too.. It's her fight and she can fight herself, because she won't get one from me.
