I know it is hard but you will make it through this part. It takes time but I know you can do it.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I'm also depressed about not hearing about that job. I thought I would have heard by now so I'm really disappointed.
My pups sure are good for me. I can just hold them & they make me feel better. It's not like having H around but they sure do help. They make me get up & feed them otherwise I might just stay in bed, some days anyway.
I still can't imagine my life without him & I can't believe he M her, he really lost his mind!!! Do you think he will ever come back to reality?
Jobs have been very difficult to find these days. I know so many people who have lost their jobs and they have been looking anywhere from a few months to a year. And these people are not only seeking office/clerical positions but also professional and/or managerial positions.
As for your H. He has a ways to go before he realizes what all he has done. You cannot think about when/why/what should have/could have been. It is all in God's hands. Your h is so blinded and deceived for now just like all of the MLCers, and until God opens his eyes, he will probably be like this for awhile.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
You are so comforting! Thank you for you kind words. I know you are going thru so much yourself but you are here for me & so many others.
I'm really trying to work on not thinking about my H but it is so hard. It is in God's hands & I'm trying to let him take care of it & not worry about it.
I'm very concerned about the job sitch. It's been 2 weeks today since the 2nd interview & I know they were waiting on the NY office to give them a budget for salary & it was between me & one other person, so I just don't know. I hope they are just slow & haven't decided on a budget yet but I'm getting worried b/c I know they want someone to start by Sept. 2nd.
I'll just keep praying.
Thank you again for being here for me! I'm trying not to be venting but sometimes I just have to. Sometimes this whole thing just gets the best of me.
nlt: If you do not get the job, then it was not meant to be and God has something better for you.
And please, do not let others steer you into ways that go against your beliefs. You can witness that by my current thread. Hang in there, rely on God and your faith in Him. If we turn away from God and do things according to man and take matters into our own hands, it totally backfires on us.
Allow God to deal with your problems.
We are here to listen and support you. You know where I stand on things.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
When the world advises us one way and yet God has His way we should deal with things, you know you are doing right by God when you are being attacked or strongly encouraged to do things in a manner that is not pleasing to God.
God preaches unconditional love, he does not preach that we take matters into our own hands or to kick out spouses on the curb so to speak.
It may take awhile but God does answer prayer and He knows what is best for you.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
There are a lot of people here to support you. You are showing great strength after all you have been through. Take it one day at a time. Keep having faith. Things will get better.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Nit, yes many people are supporting you through this difficult time. Hoping you will get the job you want or a job that will be a good fit. Prayers that you will lean on God and He will give you the strength you need so that you can come through this stage of your journey,hopeful that better things lie ahead. You are required to help by doing things for you and try to follow all of Michelles teachings here on this site.
"God preaches unconditional love, he does not preach that we take matters into our own hands or to kick out spouses on the curb so to speak".
Yes he does teach us this BUT your husband is now married to another. Unconditional love now means loving him from afar. Or you are going to be on this self same spot for many many years Can you pray for your x husbands marriage to break down and for him to get a D and then remarry you? I guess you could even so thats going to take a few years at least and is that a very Christian thing to do. Years you will waste in pain and misery waiting for something with odds very heavily stacked against you. I am sure you know victims of life mishaps,they wallow and complain of how life is so unfair, yet others equally unfortunate pick themselves up and deal with what life gives them. Which would you rather be. I think the Bible gives us guidelines ie 10 commandments, but God gave us free will, people choose! otherwise we would all be living perfect lives and they are not as is evident by the many people who are here. You will get through this, you may not get the answers, but life will get better because you make it. Happiness comes from within not from another person. Look to the future, place the past behind. It is not easy but you /we never know what life has in store so you make the choice to go forward, day by day. Takes courage,takes faith that there just might be something better waiting for you.
