Hmm sounds to me like she is noticing your detachment and it is freaking her out. She's not comfortable with you being okay on your own because she doesn't feel like she has as much control over the situation. It is making her uncertain/uneasy.
Which may work in your favor in the long run.
Time will tell.
Don't let her get to you. Just keep taking care of you.
just a small part of my email to her :
I don't need to track your every move, I am way past that, I have my own life to live now. I know you don't believe me but I have moved on. I have moved away from all my bad habits and into good ones, and I plan on sticking to that, it's a challenge somedays when I go out with certain friends, but I manage. Did you ever receive the email I sent you? That email was from the bottom of my heart, and I meant what I said in it.
