Ok but still...when you are in a young, tender relationship, and you have to process all the emotions from a divorce at the same time...usually the young relationship just cannot survive.
Always remember that it is possible you and this gal will cross paths again - - if things are meant to be, they will be. But in the meantime, keep healing. And keep praying and reading and go to counseling if you can. Divorce can do so much damage. We all need help to recover and it can take many years.