Going dark does seem to be working. I haven't contacted H since Sat (3 whole days, this is the longest it's been) and then I get this email from him - am I supposed to respond? What am I supposed to say? See my other post re: the letter he wrote to me. I feel like if I do respond then I've set myself back in the DB process.. I have no idea what to do, please advise:
Hi- you didn't respond back to my instant message so either you did not want to, or you didn't see it. Anyway, I just wanted to see everything was okay with you, you got in okay and you had a good trip (I hope?) I'm sorry if my letter to you hurt or anything, i just want to be honest with you and myself so hope you can understand this is still very hard for me. If I'm not helping but this contact, than I will understand if you do not wish to contact me back. Before I said I didn't want to talk and thought you were pushing a bit too much, but I never did say we should not talk/communicate at all. I just don't know.
----- Our chat on Wed, 8/20/08 10:11 AM -----
Michael (10:11 AM): H i- do you mind if i check in real quick?
