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Hey ja, miss you! Im sure things are hectic.. I did get the pic of the babies OMG they are gosh darn cute!! I will be around tomorrow in the morning..

thanks lwb!! Yup this friday, should be interesting!

Sara,

He's back out in Utah. He just called... he's almost there!


Just got back from the movies and dinner with the kids and my mom. The mummy was Awesome!! Gotta go see it!! The kids were really good, afterwards we took them to the park, then we went to the local diner, we had a nice time.

Tomorrow got lots to do around the house, go grocery shopping and school supply shopping. Busy wk coming up.


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Oh, wow, what brave little soldiers. The Mummy!

I am dyeing to see Batman:The Dark Knight. Both S7 and S3 want to see another Batman movie too, but I really can't take them to this one -- the Joker is way too scary for them, for S7 more-so than S3. S7 even gets creeped out by the cartoon Joker on Saturday morning, the live action one would be too much. S3, however, loves Batman so much he might tolerate the Heath Ledger Joker -- he's not quite as sensitive as his big brother. Still, they''l have to wait for DVD so I can pre-screen/fast-forward through the parts that would bother them.

The new Mummy movie wouldn't interest them, though it does me. I'm also sorry I missed seeing Hellboy 2 (it's already ended its run around here.)

I am definitely planning on taking them to see Star Wars: The Clone Wars, maybe next weekend if W doesn't beat me to it.


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nc.. love batman too. Although my kids are not into it. I will just have to wait until it comes out on dvd.

Big star wars fan here, (my youngest boy's middle name is Anakin).. but im not really interested in the clone wars movies. If you go let me know how it is. The boys might enjoy it.


... Journaling... H made is safe and sound. We texted eachother for about an hour last night.. it was funny and "graphic"
It was all in good fun. His bday is this wk, so I will send him some stuff in the mail I think, I have to be creative. Anyways, Had an emotional night otherwise, but Friend never even called me later in the day to see if S5 was ok, it really really bothered me. One of my problems is I have certain expectations for certain friends of mine, my close ones that is, and I almost always get dissapointed. I just assume that everyone will treat my friendship as I do, and then I get let down. Im getting so fed up with the human race.. People are just so inconsiderate and uncaring. I'll admit, sometimes im stubborn, but I am a very loyal friend and would do anything for anybody, I have yet to find a friend who will do the same. Don't get me wrong my bf is a good person, but she hurts me sometimes, and I don't know if it just stupidity or she doesn't care to put the effort into our friendship.

Ok I'll stop now, today has been hard, missing H and trying to keep the kids happy today has been a challenge.


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Originally Posted By: tiredandlost
One of my problems is I have certain expectations for certain friends of mine, my close ones that is, and I almost always get dissapointed. I just assume that everyone will treat my friendship as I do, and then I get let down. Im getting so fed up with the human race.. People are just so inconsiderate and uncaring. I'll admit, sometimes im stubborn, but I am a very loyal friend and would do anything for anybody, I have yet to find a friend who will do the same. Don't get me wrong my bf is a good person, but she hurts me sometimes, and I don't know if it just stupidity or she doesn't care to put the effort into our friendship.


(((Tal))) I know how you feel. I have the same troubles with some of my friendships, its frustrating that a lot of people treat their friendships as carelessly as they do.
Thinking of you ((((hugs))))


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Thanks sugar.. its like you can't trust anyone, not your H, or your friends. Just yourself.

Feeling a little better. Tomorrow is a big day. Taking the kids to the county fair with my mom. Its a tradition, H has missed it two years in a row \:\( These are the times I really wish he was here.

Wed. Is his birthday, I picked up a really nice card from me and one from the boys, I think I will fedex them to him along with a pair of my panties \:\)


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What a great idea! I'm sure he will love it.

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Tal,

Awesome idea! H will be flying home for some!
Cake that is.

I have to find a minute to call you girl.

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Well I didn't get to mail out his special package today.. I had taken the kids to the county fair and got back to late. BUT I ordered him a HUGE Cookie from Pro Flowers which said HAPPY BIRTHDAY on it. I had ordered something "special" for myself and he will enjoy later when he gets home :).. you would be proud sara...:)

fair was great.. the kids had a blast. It wasn't even crowded either which was nice! I took some good pics! I was a long day though. I could tell by talking to H later that he was a little disappointed that he wasn't there... I felt bad \:\(

Honestly, I needed a break this time. Although I miss him, we needed the time apart, especially me.


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Hubba Hubba!!! Good back up plan. \:\) \:\) \:\)

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Absence makes the heart grow fonder, they say... or at least it can and should. I always hated long trips away from my W and my family.

But your H is very lucky, and he's getting the best b-day present upon his return (hubba hubba, indeed).


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.
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