The naivity on this bb sometimes is shocking! OK, some people have different ways of handling things - but HANDLE it. If you keep chasing down the same cheeseless tunnels, year after year - you are not making progress. And you are STUCK!
In many ways, so many people here are ignorant of their own situations. If you don't take stock of your life regularly and make the necessary changes - then you are a fool.
I posted too but I've been blasted so much lately that nothing bothers me.