nlt, it has been 3 years of sheer hell for me and he is 180 degrees from the person I knew and loved.

Everyone has their limits and this was mine...and not as if I didn't have a clue...he was seen with her a rubbing her pregnant stomach. That was strange and makes sense in light of what I have learned.

I was ready to make the move...I need freedom from all this madness and have no hope that he will ever be a person I could ever trust. I think this is who he is now and I am glad I will no longer be a part of it. I have to accept that the man I loved died 3 years ago.

Valentine

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller