Ex had his friend call me last night to see if I needed anything. It was so ackward and uncomfortable not to mention inappropriate. I had not talked to this person for over 2 years. This person indicated to me that ex said "I would need a friend right now"........ He proceeded to give me a lecture on grief. I ended the conversation as soon as I could. I have to make sure I zip my lips because I felt the need to defend myself throughout most of the conversation. I wanted to call ex up and tell him how weird I thought that was. I did'nt. I will ignore it. I think in his feeble way he was trying to help. I felt also that he was trying to get information from me. Not what I need right now.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11