Originally Posted By: max030
Hi. As the wife who had the affair and whom has tremedous remorse - how do I help my H to stop focusing on the negative thoughts. He says they are over whelming and constant when with me.

I immediately ended my affair, attended every councelling session requested, apologised a million times etc

What do i do next ? How does a man think... is it his ego that is the barrier I cannot breahkthrough ?
Hi Max. Wow, that's a question and a half! Do you have your own thread where we could respond?


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