I cannot take the credit for my house renovations, it was all my wifes idea and it was one of the things at the heart of our problems, all her friends had nice show houses but ours was just somewhere to live. But if it has inspired you then take full advantage of it and do as many things as you can. I think your W will apprieciate it and it may bring you closer to the kind of connection with her that you are looking for. Take up the challenge and become Home Improvements man.
