Does LRT work?

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Kimmie,

LRT isn't for everyone, or every situation; it isn't one size fits all advice. I'm sure you knew that.........

as far as it being too late, I've seen people get divorced, remarry, and end up remarrying their first spouse. unless you're getting beat up, you're doing the beating, or one of the spouses is dead, it isn't too late. it all depends on timing, feelings, circumstance, fate, and a whole mess of other things.

also, you aren't a mind reader. just because you made it easy for H to stay away doesn't mean he didn't feel guilt. whether he tells you he wasn't guilty or he was, you DON'T and WON'T know if that's true. Only he does.

DB'ing isn't a crock like you believe. It's a method.....Helicopters are a method; planes are another. Whatever gets you there. I am very truly sorry LRT didn't work for you; I'm assuming everyone else is too. LRT doesn't work for me either because I have a 2 year old we have to talk about frequently. That doesn't mean LRT doesn't work for anyone. It does. just not you or I.