It did NOT work for me. It simply made it a lot easier for H to stay away, guilt-free.

I wish I hadn't done it. I wish I would have asked him to come home and several other things that are supposedly not "DB".

In fact, I don't believe that "it's never too late to save your marriage", as it states right here on this site. What a crock! It most certainly IS too late in too many cases. Waaaayyyy too late.

Also, "keep right on DBing"???

Um...."DB" stands for Divorce "BUSTING", meaning that your divorce is "BUSTED", right? How is a divorce "BUSTED" when you find yourself actually divorced? This makes no sense.