Dom has it sooo right. What you think is blunt, he'll take as a hint.

How many LBS (especially men) go "She never said a WORD!! about being unhappy"??? Most of them. He's not gonna get it unless you're prety obvious about it.

Sara, another good point, he might think it's "cute" or something when it isn't.

OK I have no new thoughts tonight but hope it's OK to tag on to other good ones.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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