He is so new into the MLC that he cannot connect very well with anybody in his family right now.
It is better to let him be and carry on. I know, it gets to you but it is the only way.
The more we kick and scream and shout, the further away they go at this particular stage.
It will be awhile before he really reconnects with the kids, esp. your daughter.
Hang in there, think about you and your kids. You have plenty to do at home.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19