Thanks so much Barbie. Who knows what H is asking when he wants me to throw out a number. I know he is worrying about how broke he is going to be. I make more than him, but the kids are going to live with me for the most part. Its very confusing with our schedules (both federal law enforcement). I don't want him broke, but I am with you: He wants this, he needs to figure out how the heck we are both going to make it separately on the same amount of money.

The Excel spreadsheet the mediator gave us figured out the state child support for our state, but for the life of me, I can't remember what it is!! I need to do some homework. Thanks again!