I gotta say, I'm worried for you. I know you've never seen this side of him, but it's here now. Even if it's temporary, you have to deal with the him he is today, and I'm worried he may not be the rational person you've known. That behavior really scares me for you and your kids. Please, please listen to your head over your heart right now. Often when I need clarity on something, I try simply to think of what I'd say to a friend in the exact same situation. It's crazy sometimes how different what I'd advise someone else to do is from my own situation. Even when they are similar.
Please think about it. I'm worried.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!