No matter what kind of relationship problems you may experience, there are times when things go more smoothly(EVEN if your spouse is in MLC.).
ike so many other people, are you guilty of focusing solely on what isn't working rather than what is?
What's your best guess as to why people tend to focus on the Negative?
What are your thoughts about focusing on the problem-free times?
What things are / were both you and your partner doing at these times (especially YOU!)? What's different at these times? What are the "exceptions" to the "not-so-good" times, times when things turn out a little different than usual?
Are there times that you "know" that things are going to turn out bad? Are there times when you "know" that things are going to turn out good? What are YOU doing to make that happen?
Are there good times that you're taking for granted?
What are some of these times, either in the past or the present?
When are you better able to see the glass as being "half-full"?
Last edited by sgctxok; 08/20/0803:08 AM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
