I started reading Mike's sitch Jack. It sounds very familiar and I think he is doing better than I am. My W and I are more argumentative types and I have a hard time maintaining a civil relationship with her. I think having her move in with the neighbor hasn't made it any easier. My W doesn't seem to realize the damage she is doing to our 3 daughters either. I have reached the one year mark since the bomb and I am exhausted and getting negative about our prospects....


H 42
W 37
M17 T20 years
3 daughters 11,11,14
seperated 11/26/07
EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8
Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon