She packed up a lot of her stuff in the minvan. Then she went to D12's room to say goodbye. D12 wouldn't talk to her, told her to get out of her room.
W stood in the doorway bawling and begging D12 to let her say good bye but D12 said she doesn't want to talk to her or to me, just leave her alone. This went on for about 5 minutes until W just said "I'll call you" and left her alone.
She went to D17's room and D17 gave her a hug and a goodbye. D17 didn't cry. I think she understands this has to happen.
Her friend came over to pick up her kid whom D17 was babysitting. I don't know what she told her but when I saw her friend while W was in the bathroom she gave me a sympathy look, like she's sad we are going through this. I don't know if she knows W is having an affair.
When W left she was crying hard. Then about 5 minutes later she called me on the phone, still crying, telling me she needed to come back for some things she forgot. I said "no problem, it's really ok".
she came back and was only a minute, then left.
D12 went in the bathroom and had a bath. When she came out I went to check in on her and she quietly asked me to leave her alone for a while, which I did.
D17 went out with her boyfriend for dinner.
I feel like such a heel. But I didn't MAKE her go, I convinced her she was causing too much damage to me, and indirectly to the girls so she HAD to go. I stood for what I believe in and for my own protection.
I love this woman, and have made sure she knows it. I am so sad to see everything implode like this. I hope she thinks what she's doing is worht the pain she's causing.
