Where do I go from here? pt. 2

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NLT, Wow, your H is certainly on a freight train ready to barrel into something. I guess this is where you have to say that it is just as well you are not on that train.

Teeps, I'm sorry about your sitch w/H possibly marrying OW. I think I need to have that attitude that that could also happen to me. Mainly I am just trying to cooperate w/divorce at this point. I am thinking of changes I would like to make to move forward...

Do the same thing regardless of whether you are "standing"--start preparing for your new life. Be friendly and kind but not a doormat. If H notices and starts to respond, OK, whatever, you can go from there. If not, you've behaved with integrity and you have done the best you could....