OK well again, not having much other details here, but I will say this...
If you and she met while neither of you were even divorced yet, then I think that is just too big of a hurdle for most couples. Going through divorce while trying to maintain a new relationship is just too much strain for the new relationship.
I actually did this myself. Although my relationship "made it" and we are still together, the challenges involved were really too much for most people to get through. Most would not have made it.
So I know you don't really want this advice but....if I were you I would forget about that relationship, grieve it and your marriage for as long as necessary, continue GAL, and continue dating but without expectations....and hopefully after you've healed and moved on, you will meet the right woman.
