Lrt VI midlife criis gotta be patient

[craig54]

I have an observation. I know I am guilty of it, I see it through out the bb. We all tend to focus on our spouses and not on ourselves. I also know it is hard not to. In my case when I focus on my wife, and not on The Lord, I start to over think the situation and panic. I worry about things that are not necessarily true .

If we focus on our spouses we will absorb their attitudes and not be able to look at our situation with objective eyes.I just did it the other day when my wife said she wanted to seek legal aid to help her finish the marital settlement agreement. I immediately started feeling uneasy, just because she uttered a few words. It is such a waste of time and energy to do it.

Just an observation.