Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
She wanted to tell me about the results from her surgery. She had her post-op today. I didn't ask her to tell me how it went, and didn't really show any interest in hearing about it, but she sent me a text telling me how everything turned out.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
The next question, likely when the swelling goes down some, is going to be, "when do you want to see the results?"
Be prepared. Be prepared. Be prepared.
And your answer is going to be....?
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Well, let me put it this way. I hope that I'm busy at that time. I'm not feeling confident that I could just say, "Nah, I'm not interested." Maybe in time.
I guess I need to prepare myself for that. Luckily I have some time to.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
Don't take too much time. She may throw that one at you tonight.
You're not FEELING confident. That doesn't mean that you can't ACT confident. So what if you tell her you're not interested? What's she going to do? Go find someone else? He can't even get it up for her. How do you think that's going to make her feel with her new body?
Let her live with her decisions for awhile. Only then can she see what she's lost.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
I didn't ask her anything when she was texting me because I didn't want to show any interest. I just told her she sounded excited, etc. and she kept right on telling me all about it.
Maybe I'm a little stronger than I feel. Act as if, fake it 'till you make it.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
Better than that...you need an answer. She's going to ask.
Something along the lines of...
"You know I just don't think you're fiance would approve of that." "I don't want to be the other man." "I'm just not interested in seeing your new body. I thought it was perfect before you went and altered it." "It doesn't matter anymore what I think about your body, so I'd rather not see the results."
or, if she give you a specific time... "I have a date that night. But, if I don't get too drunk and end up crashing at her place, I'll call you." (then don't call).
Anyways, have a answer PREPARED. Or you'll end up stumbling over yourself to go see her.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I agree. But you have to admit, her suggestions were funny, especially the one about the date and being drunk. Smile just a little Floyd!!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
