Frank, Just wanted to say Hi! I'm sorry you are finding yourself in the place you are in right now; but, I am really proud of the way you are handling everything. You told your w what your boundaries were and she tested them.
Sometimes, we just have to do what is best for us, as well as our children...no matter how much it hurts.
I was really impressed w/ the things your daughter said to you last night. She reminds me of my own daughter; they both are mature beyond their years.
I was also glad to read that you went to an AA meeting. It takes courage to do that. You and I have discussed your drinking before. Obviously, I cannot/am not saying you have a problem; but, it's good that you are willing to do something about it, regardless.
You are a strong man, Frank. You WILL get through this, no matter the outcome. Trust in YOURSELF!!!
You're in my prayers!
deb
P.S. My dad has an African Gray Parrot. He is such a hoot. Like yours, he calls the dog....he rings like the telephone, answers the phone, and then carries on a conversation w/ himself, says "Good-bye", and hangs up. He is such great entertainment. Sadly, he will probably outlive us all...lol!
