Lady...speaking from someone who has been through an abusive marriage, this is the way it starts. It does't start with your H beating your head in, it starts with words to break your spirit, controlling mannerisms, and then to top it off they throw the physical violence in. I just want you to be very careful. Sneaking into your home in the middle of the night, to me, is very disturbing behavior. Expecting sex when he isn't even speaking to you is very controlling behavior. You don't need this, you are having enough of a hard time, and this kind of behavior is not normal.

(((Ladybug))) you are precious to us and we don't want anything bad to happen to you so please be careful.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..