I'm not trying to minimize things. But I also don't thinks it's a desperate situation. I saw him today. We took d4 for her first dentist visit. Afterward, we ate lunch. It was very casual. Of course, with d4 there, we didn't talk about anything.
We have a lot going on this week, so we'll see each other quite a bit. We have kindergarten orientation, and an allergy specialist for s2 (that in itself is a long story that landed us in the ER last weekend after he ate a walnut). We have a child care orientation, and a day care picnic. So, we'll be seeing each other.
I've told him before that I think we need a third party present when we need to talk. Not just to keep the conversation on course, but to keep us both from escalating. I guess I can go back to that.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
