Good question NG. I've wondered alot why my H didn't take much either. He's refused stuff that I've offered. He has taken more clothes a piece at a time but not much at all.

I had to take my wedding rings (i wore H to for years) off the morning I got arrested. I decided at that moment that I would not put them back on until H asks me to. Until then I had not planned on taking them off at all. We are still M and to me it was a sign of my commitment to him and our M. But after what happened that all changed in an instant.

Actually my dream is that H and I will R and renew our vows and I will get a new set. The old M is over.

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!