Don't take too much time. She may throw that one at you tonight.

You're not FEELING confident. That doesn't mean that you can't ACT confident. So what if you tell her you're not interested? What's she going to do? Go find someone else? He can't even get it up for her. How do you think that's going to make her feel with her new body?

Let her live with her decisions for awhile. Only then can she see what she's lost.

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."