Was I ready to verbalize that? No. More than likely, I won't fully verbalize it until it's too late. I am trying to drop hints now. If I say anything now, I am worried it will escalate things before I am emotionally ready. But I feel myself getting there. And I will attempt to keep an eye on my feelings so that I don't turn into the WAW...but......
D.A.M.
he doesnt get "hints".
Say it as bluntly as you think it possible... .and that will be equivalent to a "hint", for him.
"I'm sick and tired of your crap. I'm about ready to dump your ass".
== "Hmm... she's giving me a hint that she's unhappy in the way I treat her"
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle