I agree, I've made myself too readily available for anytime she needed me. The times that I haven't been available don't seem to make her mad, but make her want to spend time with me more.
With that being said, I'm going to try (and hopefully accomplish) cutting ties with her.
The hard part with all of this is that her issue with her new guy is purely sexual. Not in her words, but she basically says that he's excellent when it comes to verbal support. Now that she's in a position where that's the only kind of support she can get, I'm sure he ill shine like a diamond.
When we talked on Saturday, she spoke of finding a job here and waiting until the end of the school year to move or make any changes. Where I went wrong was actually believing that to be a choice she had already made. I should just keep assuming they are getting married in May until she actually calls it off.
I think I'm going to go out with this other girl and enjoy myself for a while. I need a break from this.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
