I'm sorry for the pain that you are feeling, Frank. You did the best thing for yourself though and it was time.
You said earlier you felt hurt...and empowered.
Empowered was the word I was hoping to hear.
You have taken the first step towards living the rest of your life and living it well. It's up to her if she decides she wants to get on board when she sees where Frank is headed. Then the work will be on her shoulders. You should not - CAN not - bank on that happening, though.
You've gotten through worse than this and you're going to get through this, too.
