I think taking it one step at a time is a good approach especially the house arrangement and there is a lot to be said about the two of you "standing" as a couple.

What has been your Mom's reaction?

TwinDad
Me 39, W 36, M 11
W - MLC, WAW????
2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old
Start of the Long and Bumpy Road.....
On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning