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[pisces9]

i agree TD. thats more the reason why i have to do this.
if we want children- this change must occur. i cant imagine having to change all this later or if we got pregnant, etc.

but even if we dont have kids, i feel the pull to leave. it is too stressful. and i need to really just live without any more stress.

my best friend has 3 kids and i talk with her a lot about all the changes and sacrifices you make when you start a family.

seriously- my family is so intense that if we had kids we would not leave them alone with them, ever.

so that says a lot about us needing to really detach.

ive asked a few of my friends today about this and even told my mom a little of what i was thinking..most say what is he giving up?

well- he is giving up the $ as well and that security and he is taking on being the sole provider to an extent.

i would say thats a huge step!

i think #1 is we have to move.
#2 is i can work still p/t for 6 months or so and then slowly quit.