Well, no word from h as yet about meeting up. I have had really good PMA all day and have felt very detached from the situation. I'm having a momentary urge to fix things at the moment so I thought I would post here instead. I am hoping it will pass really quickly; I am staying away from my phone.
One good thing that happened today was that I had applied for a discount on my council tax as you get 25% off if you live in a single occupancy house. They wrote to me and said that I only have to pay £40 a month instead of £140 as they have back dated the discount since he left. I hope this means that we shouldn't go over our overdraft this month if h doesn't meet me to discuss the bank stuff. This is a huge weight off my mind. I had been aware you could apply for a discount for a while but it meant admitting that my h no longer lives here and it has taken me a long time to get to that place. If I'd know that it would have eased my money worries I would have done it way sooner!
I have booked a DB coaching session for tomorrow to re-assess things. I am going to keep up no contact at least till then and see what she comes up with. *Sigh* I wish h would take some responsibility but the good thing is I don't need him to take responsibility.
I have been in a good mood all day, I'm just having a lull!
