Originally Posted By: ~Ali
He even asked in his tyrade.. oh so you think God would help me to feel better or differently?
I calmy said yes I do....
Ali, you are so right on this, it is so true. Do you remember my early postings? I had turned away from my wife, my family and God. I was like your husband in that I had the door closed tightly. How could God help me with my problems? Only when I opened the door a little and let God back into my heart, did see any hope for a change in my life and it started with Him. When I allowed and accepted His help, I did see how to find the answers for happiness.

I too had to hit rock bottom before I cracked my door open just enough to let Him in. God was there waiting for my darkest moment and through His love for me, lit the way to seeing Him once more and to finding the answers I was seeking. I am now lighting the way for my wife, helping to find her happiness. I see it growing in her each day now.

Ali, keep lighting a candle for your husband and praying. He may see the truth in what you are saying and showing to him one day. You are a blessing to him even if he doesn't know it yet.

Cinco