That took courage, my friend. Courage. Anyone who has filled out D papers when they love their W...know this pain.
I empathize with you frank, but, was there really any other course for you? She was continuing to hurt you under the guise of still being married.
Marriage isn't a free lunch ticket.
It's not a trapeze net to fall back to when crossing boundaries.
It's not a place where we hurt the person who built a home with us..who we created life with.
It's a commitment...it's a choice....it's a life...that WE decide to enter into....to share life's challenges and GROW with.
And, sadly:
Originally Posted By: David Cunningham
...sometimes when they become destructive, we have to fire them for their lack of support
As you have said to me over and over, "I think you've done the right thing."
Supporting you. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
