OK. Some tough love here. Because I see you saying really great things about seeing someone else, letting her go, etc... SHE'S ENGAGED to be married to someone else! She's SET A DATE! I have NO doubt in my mind that she still loves you. I have no doubt that this new relationship is going to fall apart. She's very confused, but you've got to stop getting caught up in her drama. Until she breaks it off with new guy, tell her that you are not interested in seeing her surgery results (even if you are interested). You are not interested in anymore ML sessions while she is engaged to someone else. Beleive me, this will have far greater results since her and the new guy are unable to, and she's frustrated with it. She's playing with your head, and it isn't right. It's time to tell her the game's over.
Read the book Love Must be Tough by James Dobson.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
