I think we also do that because it's simply easier. We're nice, good people, and it's easier to be someone's buddy than to come to the sad, awful realization that this person you married is no longer a friend of the marriage.
How true, how true. And most of us just cannot truly fathom what they have done to us. Too surreal.
Like "As long as you come back, I'll look past what you have done and we can work on us."
But can we really?
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."