My FH would say one minute you are fine and the next you are a mess. He never figured out that sometimes that was all connected with him. Anyway, probably not good but since I wanted him to know that I wasn't ok, I told him. " Just so you know, I am not fine. I am just trying to get through the day." Not sure if it ever helped, since we are Divorced now but it made me feel better without getting into some big explanation of how I was. Hope that helps.
kat
I think they don't get it because they are just stupid people now. They have become true experts at turning a blind eye to the crap they have caused.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
