I had an email this afternoon from Hs aunt that lives in Australia. She is his dad's sister (FIL died 19 years ago). In a previous message I had told her how H seems to be spending out of control and today she told me that her brother always had trouble living within his means as he always wanted MIL to have the best. I did not know this and answers a lot of things from the past. Ironically it seems all he learned from his mother was to squirrel money away and hide it where nobody else is likely to find it. What he forgets is that I was there when she was leading by example.


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Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15