Just live your life right now one day at a time and try to focus on things you want to do for yourself and not your h.
Job, trips, out to dinner with friends, church groups and so on.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19