Amen. I look at threads of people who have been married (happily) for decades - then the Bomb is dropped. If I'm looking for certainty, I'll never be in another R again. But I feel good about where we are and I hope we can learn from going through all this crap, and use it to build a stronger future.
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
