I guess I could rephrase it to be, do you THINK what you are doing in your sitch getting you closer to your goal?
If not, what do you think you should do or change?
I don't know. I do think if my H and the OW broke up he would want to try our M again although I know that's not always the case; but I'm smart, funny, nice person and now actually have some self-confidence and independence too. Of course, I don't know if it would work out b/c I want an H that respects and appreciates me and is faithful, and I don't know if he can ever be that again.
Thanks to you and Puppy, I've realized that I need to double my GALing efforts. I'm also going to stop acting like the joky best friend with H. If he is doing what he is doing, it's not fine, and I'm not going to act like I'm fine with it anymore. So how about you??? Karen
