You are doing great B~ . It takes a lot of hard work and IMO~ your Wife is moving along at a good pace. Other veteran posters would have given there left eye for what she has done. How far she has come in these past few months....
I completely agree with you here, Alimari. I am extremely thankful for her and the progress that we have made over this past year. So while we BOTH still have times of frustration with each other, we both also acknowledge how far we have come.
Of the 10 or so regular, or semi-regular posters here now (following the Valentine's Day Exodus), there are only a couple of us at the SSM recovery stage where BOTH partners 'get it' and are actively working on improving their relationship and sex life together as a team. I'm darn lucky to be one of those.
And I sincerely hope that I can help others to get there too.
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007