had a little bit of action last night. my son was in terrible pain in his back and I took him to the er. turns out he has a kidney stone. called W about it while we were there. told her everything was ok, he was drugged up and what the situation was. she kept asking me if she should come down or not. I never asked her to or led her on that way, just gave her the info to let her decide. She never came down to see her son on a hospital bed writhing in pain. She knew he was in pain because she could hear him over the phone. I talked to her later in the night and she sounded like she had a couple bottles of wine. Maybe thats why she didnt come down. I ended up having to take him down a second time in the middle of the night.
She called this morning at 7:45, woke us both up. She wanted to know if she could come over and see him. I said sure. She came over. First time she has been in the house since she left.
When she was leaving, we talked about his condition etc. We also got into a discussion about this prior weekend when she left him behind. It's obviously bothering her because she tried bringing it up last night on the phone when I was at the ER. I told her I didnt want to talk about it then. The summary is she had the kids for her one week this summer and left him behind for a 3 day weekend so she could go see her friend. I felt if she was leaving him behind, he should have come home to be with me. She said he made the decision to stay there. The reason he did was because he didnt think I was home last weekend. He didnt have any other options. He didnt want to go with her, what else is he supposed to do? If he knew I was home, he would have come home. The option wasnt presented to him. W trying to defend herself profusely on this issue, "dont make me the bad guy on this". She's never at fault for anything. She has the kids for her week and bails on her son. Anyway, she said I could have the kids anytime and we shouldnt be arguing about stuff like this. I simply answered that we shouldnt be arguing about it either, we should be married.
