I will speak from experience, when I had the plastic surgery, I was miserable right after, and did not want to talk to anyone. I have had surgeries before, and this by far was the most painful. So don't take anything she says to heart right now. Give her a week to come out of the narcotic painkiller haze, and then see where you are at.
But I think you should go out with this woman, as long as you are ready, just as friends, have dinner, see a movie, concert, something. It doesn't have to be serious. But if you are not ready, don't push it. You will know when the time is right. IF you push to hard, it will end up disastrous.
There is no shame in taking time for yourself, you know.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
