I brought up the D papers the Sunday that the girls and I talked to her. I told her that, while I don't control her, we are still married. If that is the life she wanted, then divorce me, but to quit showing the girls what she is doing.
I will continue praying and searching for strength. It's hard to have hope when I see so many others around here that have or are doing the same thing, and their spouses continue to just not get it. Disheartening.
What is inspiring is the strength they find for themselves. EVERYONE on here. Not even going to try to name them. They all know who they are. All of us that consider ourselves friends here and care about each other. Uplifting each other.
We have the same feelings. To us looking in, they are really strong, but to themselves.....they don't see it, because they are in it.
Thank God for you being here, dub.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
